Queer sex is and always will be a middle finger to the hetero establishment, a threat to the dominant paradigm, and — for this queer man, at least — the most beautiful part of my life. My queer identity is tied immovably to the most intimate parts of my life; the men I fuck, the men I kiss and grind in public, my positive HIV status, my sex parties, my slutty nights. From open relationships to kink and BDSM and all manner of uninhibited, no-moral-bullshit sexual play in between, being queer means having a world of sexual exploration at your fingertips. That exploration often takes place at sex parties and orgies, and summertime means that group fuck fests, orgies, and circuit parties with winding sex mazes will be hopping. Here are 15 tips to get you started, with a bunch to follow in part two of this guide.
The essential guide to your first time at a fetish club
Women like Kim Kardashian and Ashley Graham have been rocking the shit out of latex in public, and fetish wear has been slowly creeping into high fashion since LFW Unfortunately, while new people coming onto the scene is mostly positive, there have been a few problems. Zara du Rose , a model and fetish event organiser, says there have been times when girls and guys have failed to get consent before getting involved in sex play.